Kids outlearn AI—and we still don’t know why

LLMs need vastly more data than children to learn language. Understanding why could help us create more efficient models—and reveal more about developing minds.

August 24, 2026

Selman Design

People have been talking to each other for at least 100,000 years, as best we can tell. And in all that time, there has been only one thing in the world that could learn a human language to perfect fluency: a human child.

Now there are two.

Four short years after the release of ChatGPT, many of us now take it for granted that we can converse naturally with our phones or computers. LLMs like Claude, DeepSeek, and OpenAI’s GPT models are fluent and flexible enough to masquerade convincingly as humans. But peek behind the computational curtain, and there’s a catch: Teaching a computer to use human language still requires an inhuman amount of data. An LLM can easily churn through a hundred thousand times more words than a person will experience in the process of mastering their mother tongue—and way more than children might hear by their first birthday, when they typically start to grab hold of language.

“The progress recently has been amazing,” Michael C. Frank, a cognitive scientist at Stanford University, says of LLMs. “But we still have to burn down a forest and scrape the entire sum of all human knowledge to re-create this milestone that happens in our living rooms over the course of a year.”

This yawning divide between children and machines is called the data efficiency gap. And it raises a tantalizing question for cognitive scientists and a challenge for the architects of AI models: How is it that kids can still outperform the most linguistically sophisticated machines ever built?

Finding answers has stakes for both AI research and cognitive science. For the past decade, language models have mostly gotten better by getting bigger. Meta’s open-weight LLM Llama 3.1, released two years ago, chewed through 15 trillion tokens (word-like chunks of language) in pretraining—the main step of training a model that happens before it is fine-tuned for a specific task, like being a chatbot. Frontier models could be pretraining on 10 times more data, says Ethan Gotlieb Wilcox, a cognitive scientist and linguist at Georgetown University. But there’s only so much internet to train on, and eventually—perhaps as early as the 2030s—the well of easily available data could run dry.

Kids show that it could be possible to learn more with less. Far less. A preteen raised in a linguistically rich home may have heard something in the vicinity of 100 million words. Add literacy to the mix and you can boost that word count to maybe 300 million words by age 20.

The difference in scale is something that can only really be gestured at in analogy. “Claude has seen the amount of language that an entire city will experience in one generation,” says Wilcox. If you were to print out on paper all the words used to train a modern LLM, you could make a stack that would reach past the International Space Station. The human preteen’s 100 million words, meanwhile, would stack up just 20 meters. And we can make do with far less than that.

By reverse-engineering the way kids learn, scientists hope to be able to create more data-efficient AI models, which could be useful for everything from training AI effectively on video to creating chatbots that serve minority language communities. Testing hypotheses about human learning in machine models could also settle enduring questions about language and children’s developing minds. Are we born with a language instinct, or would it be possible, even in principle, for a child to learn language purely from experience? Is the way we process language a quirk of our biology, or might at least some of it reflect universal constraints on how languages can be used and learned?

The essential elements

Most of us realize language is hard only when we try to learn a new one after childhood. The past perfect tense, rolled r s and nasal vowels, the genitive case, phrasal verbs, grammatically masculine tables and feminine spoons—many are the instruments of linguistic torment for the adult language learner. It’s typically effortless to learn our mother tongues, however. Toddlers usually start producing grammatically correct sentences after hearing something like 10 million words, or 30 million on the high end.

“It’s just totally miraculous,” says Frank. “If you train GPT-2 on 30 million words, you get a nonsense generator; you don’t get a kid.”

Exactly how babies pull this off is a mystery. Researchers know a lot about what kids learn and how they use language at different stages in development, but there’s still a lot we don’t know. Perhaps the most enduring question is why babies can learn language at all. The syntax of human language—the rules for combining words into sentences—includes recursive, nested structures that allow us to express virtually infinite ideas with a finite lexicon of words and pieces of words. This seems like something that should be a problem for babies. They only splash about in the shallows of a fathomless ocean of language. And yet, somehow, that’s enough. From a drop, they infer the depths.

One solution, put forward in the 1950s by the MIT linguist Noam Chomsky, is that babies are born with hardwired knowledge of grammar. Chomsky was reacting to a rival view, championed by the psychologist B.F. Skinner, that language acquisition is entirely environmental. Skinner thought language was learned through conditioning and reinforcement, the way a dog figures out how to sit or shake for treats. Chomsky countered by citing the “poverty of the stimulus”—the idea that language, especially syntax, is too complex and children’s exposure to it too “impoverished” for them to learn entirely from experience. “His signature argument was, essentially, that language cannot be learned on the basis purely of statistics,” says Richard Futrell, a linguist and cognitive scientist at the University of California, Irvine. Instead, Chomsky posited that language is based on a set of logical rules and argued that children needed innate knowledge of those rules to deduce the grammar of their language from scraps of speech.

“It’s just totally miraculous … If you train GPT-2 on 30 million words, you get a nonsense generator; you don’t get a kid.”

Michael C. Frank, cognitive scientist, Stanford University

The Chomskyan view of language dominated linguistics in the US for decades under the moniker of generative grammar. And it was a major influence on computer science in the 1950s and ’60s, when AI was enjoying its first boom time and the lines between linguistics and natural-language processing dissolved in a flood of military funding; the Pentagon wanted computers that could understand English and translate Russian.

Despite early successes of simple neural networks, which learn to recognize and reproduce statistical patterns, AI researchers in the United States largely adopted a rule-based framework influenced by Chomsky’s theories. They tried to teach language to computers by explicitly coding the rules into programs—think less immersion experience, more grammar class. This approach, part of a broader trend called symbolic AI, prevailed for decades. It also largely failed to produce models actually capable of handling human language at scale. Interest in natural-­language processing chilled in the “AI winter” that began in the 1970s.

In the aftermath, neural networks started to make a comeback. But it wasn’t until the 2010s, when computer hardware was getting cheap and capable and the internet was getting big, that their performance began turning heads. By 2018 and 2019, the models BERT and GPT-2, which were built on a new architecture—the transformer—and trained on billions of tokens, made it clear to insiders that learning from a massive glut of data could work for language. In 2022, with the breakout success of OpenAI’s chatbot ChatGPT, it was clear to everyone.

LLMs are not brains. What they are is powerful statistical learners—naïve pattern-learning machines without any of the evolved biological quirks folded into the human cortex. In other words, they are exactly the kind of thing a generative linguist two decades ago would have thought could not learn language. And yet here they were, writing believable sonnets and passing grammar tests.

“No matter how skeptical you are about AI, the thing that everyone has been really impressed with is: These things learn syntax,” says Alison Gopnik, a developmental psychologist at the University of California, Berkeley. “I didn’t think that was going to turn out to be true. And I think most people didn’t think that you could just look at the statistics of a large sample of language and figure out grammar.”